How far down the list are you?

“If you were to make a list of all of the things you love, how far down the list would YOU be?” Gary and I saw this posted on social media by a friend and we literally both thought what a fantastic question!

I honestly thing we confuse external happiness with internal happiness. We cannot be happy in our relationships, work, family life if we aren’t happy with ourselves inside. Its easier said than done but how do we work on our personally happiness? For me it's making sure I am being assertive, confident, not second guessing myself. Before boudoir change my life I literally had no confidence, I wasn’t comfortable being myself, I was so worried about what others would think and the expectations of others and I didn’t love who I was.

It wasn’t easy and it wasn’t always comfortable but learning to use my voice and set boundaries allowed me to really find who I was and love that person. I stopped questioning if my decisions were going to change how people looked at me. I cared how I viewed myself. I stopped putting my self worth and my value in the hands of someone else. And let me tell you the how amazing that is! Take charge of your worth!